My problem?

well ok, i am very insecure, but people tell me im pretty, im only happy to hear that for a second. but i always compare myself to other pretty girls, finding a way to be prettier, i mean i do that all the time, and i even get pictures of them, and everytime i look i feel sad, cuz this one girl, shes mix, has long curly hair, light skin and nice skinny shape body. and me, im mix to whit japan and im a lil thick cuz of my big boobs and butt and thighs,and i have long wavy black hair, and im christina milian skin color, but now i want to get rid of it, i want to be thin, and change myself, i hate comparing myself and tyna find whats wrong with me, and dont give me that beauty is only skin deep. dont want to here it

My problem?
...I agree with most of the above. The only thing I'd further is for you to get out and see the world. Volunteer at an orphanage or a place for the needy. People comes in many shapes and sizes. If you let this insecurity run it's own course, it may run you. Instead, take your insecurity by the horns and deal with it. You're probably very beautiful with a inferiority complex. I had a similar problem, but didn't find out until my 40's. Talk to a professional, and get involved with programs that will give you a deeper understanding of who you are, and what you can offer to the world.
Reply:Are you happy to be yourself?





Find a person you really trust and ask them to tell you five things that they really like and appreciate about you. Write these down and keep them.





Can you be someone else? No!





Be you....
Reply:Haven't you noticed the most successful fashion models are of mixed race and don't look like any one else ? They have their own look and no-one can copy them even though they try.Just eat sensibly and excersise like everyone else. Ask your doctor what your ideal weight is.
Reply:this doesnt sound like something that changing your body could fix...Even after you done changing your body, you still will find somebody that you think is way prettier than you. It always happens. Just be happy with who you are. If you do that life will be much easier. Who cares what anyone thinks. You should start asking telling your self that you have something everybody wants. Find that one unique feature that you have that nobody does not. Make people jealous of you!!!!!
Reply:I think maybe you should go see your doctor, its possible you could have the underlying beginnings of either bulemia or anorexia. look at your height and weight are they within the healthy weight range for someone of your age group? do you exercise? Do you eat healthily? If the answer is yes to all of these questions, then i suggest you see your doctor asap!!!!!
Reply:To be honest i think all girls feel like that i mean i am a girl too and i look at girls and compare myself to them ... i think its just an issue to girls in general I'm sure every1 does it, its not just you so don't worry about it, u can change yourself if u want to i don't mean drastically like surgery or anything like that i mean just take wat u can work with like hair, make up nails .... i just papmer myself and it makes me feel much better





hope this helped and God Bless
Reply:First off, stop comparing yourself to other people. You are who you are and you need to make YOU the best you can be. You need to tackle the insecurities inside and start being comfortable with who YOU are!!





For other things.....





Step 1... if you want to lose weight and change your shape some, you can do that. Get on a good, healthy diet and exercise plan. I would only go the cosmetic surgery route if the diet and exercise don't work.





Step 2... your skin color, sorry, you were born with it... perhaps you should consult a stylist. They can direct you to the correct clothes, make-up, and hair style that is right for you.





I don't think I know too many people who are completely happy with what they were born with. However, the old saying still applies.... change the things you can and learn how to deal with the things you can't.
Reply:You are so lucky to have big boobs.Im attractive,had implants but only to a c cup.Every woman has issues with her body,even attractive women would change something.you have to learn to love yourself.look in the mirror for good points.I look at my long legs and think yeah they are great.you should be like Ive got great **** that a lot of women will be jealous of.invest in some low cut tops.make the best of yourself.a new red lipstick gives me a boost.take care
Reply:Beauty is only skin deep, dear. Be gentle with yourself. Accept what is given to you by the Divine.


Stop comparing, because this will make you jealous and mean. In the long run, you won't have any girlfriends, because you've created a wall between you and the rest of the girls. You hate them, and they became your enemies.


Love yourself, by accepting all that you are.


When you cultivate a genuine love and kindness inside of you, there will be light radiating from your totality. People will find you attractive, which lasts. But beauty won't. Everybody grows old.
Reply:You will do what you need to in order to feel comfortable with yourself, but if people tell you that you're pretty, accept it. There are many girls out the self concious because they think their boobs are too small, they are too skinny, their nose is too big, etc, etc, etc...Don't compare yourself to others, because they are not you. You have your own unique personality that will mean a lot more to guys in the long run. Too many young ladies see themselves as fat when they are nowhere near fat. If you are fit enough to join your High School Field Hockey team, or other sports team. The excercise will take off any extra pounds if indeed you have them, and the reduced water content will reduce your breast size.
Reply:lose the vanity..


spending too much energy on yourself conscienceness..


take up a hobby that keeps your eyes off your peers...


try stimulating your brain..not your ego :)


and what you didnt want to hear..well...beauty is only skin deep.


have a nice day :)