HELP? I am not attracted to his skin color? Is something wrong with me?

ok so heres the deal. I am dating a guy from my own race (white) but to be honest he does not do anything for me. He is a very nice guy buys everything for me and the nicest guy ever. But I am not physically or sexually attracted to him. Deep down inside I know it is because of his skin but I am afraid to admit it to myself. I am only attracted to darker men please don't judge me. Should I just stay with him anyway or find someone else. We are supposed to get married in may and we already sent out the invitations what am I supposed to do should I just stay with him? calling of the wedding would be too embarrassing but I dont like him that way. Help please

HELP? I am not attracted to his skin color? Is something wrong with me?
Never marry someone if you don't feel it... A lifetime with someone is a long time... especially if you aren't attracted to them...





I'm not attracted to red-headed men... I know this.. it's not their fault, it's mine... but I just don't feel it... My brother absolutely loves red-heads.... There are just different tastes for different people... Physical and sexual attraction are not the sum total of a relationship, but are important.. if you aren't attracted to him, let him find someone who will be..
Reply:calling off the wedding would be more embarrassing than never being attracted to your spouse and explaining why you're getting a divorce? trust me, divorcing and having to explain it to your family and friends is by far more embarrassing.





call off the wedding and go find your darker skinned man. you owe it to yourself to be happy, and you owe it to your finacee to allow him to live a happy, fulfilling life with someone who is attracted to him and will always be there with and for him.
Reply:Lady, good grief! How did you let the situation get this deep knowing how you felt (or didn't feel) about this guy? I mean, you've even got a wedding planned! I would love to know how this all evolved if you feel like telling this story.
Reply:So why did you agree to marry him?


It is ok to be attracted to a specific body type and colour Preferences are normal.





Look calling off the wedding is embarrassing But going through with it and divorcing is even more painful and embarrassing.


If you truly do not want to marry this man set him free he deserves better than be taken for a ride just because he is a nice guy
Reply:Well I would hope that no one judges you because this is your personal preference.I just wonder why you got with someone that you aren't attracted to?I would just tell him the truth and that it isn't fair for you both to go through with this marriage.I wish you luck:)
Reply:Oh dear. If in doubt don't make a lifetime commitment.
Reply:i understand this... but why u moved on with this relationship if u were not attracted to him in the first place.. anywaz.. is he attractive? good lookin??? nice body etc... i feel the same way ... i am only attracted to white guys.. maybe u will find him sexy in other ways ...


and yes.. physical attraction is important esp if ur gonna spend ur life with that guy.. and stop thinkin of wt ppl might say about u callin off the wedding its ur life not theirs
Reply:how long have you been with him ?? you just figured this out?? whats wrong with you??